Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Quote of the day...just in time for Valentine's Day




Why do certain people get attracted to one another? How can this attraction get sustained? Trust which is an ability to tolerate the unknown is a big ingredient to a healthy relationship,along with security,safety, predictability but just as important is an element of surprise, the unexpected, the novelty, the mystery. These are the contradictions, the opposites that make this world such a dynamic and interesting place...
Here is an example extracted from an interview with Barack and Michelle Obama for a French newspaper Le Monde:

"If you look deep into her eyes, there’s a certain vulnerability. In any case, I see it even if most don’t realize it: she goes through life tall, beautiful, confident, very able…There’s a part of her that is fragile, young, sometimes scared, and I think these are contradictions that attracted me to her. And she makes me very happy. She is very familiar to me and so I can be myself around her, she knows me well, I completely trust her, but at the same time in certain respects she remains a mystery to me."

"Sometimes, when we’re lying together,I look at her and I feel dizzy with the realization that here is another distinct person from me, who has memories, origins, thoughts, feelings that are different from my own. That tension between familiarity and mystery meshes something strong between us. Even if one builds a life together based on trust, attentiveness and mutual support, I think that’s it’s important that a partner continues to surprise."

-Barack Obama about his wife Michelle.

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Happiness Quotes



The happiness of life is made up of minute fractions- the little, soon forgotten charities of a kiss or a smile, a kind look or a heartfelt compliment.

- Samuel Taylor Coleridge


I think there are different kinds of happiness. We know when we're happy a lot of time, but then there are those moments that have more of an afterglow, when the happiness has more depth.

-Ariel Gore

Saturday, August 3, 2013

A Soul Connection


Positive feelings between people translate in connections. How deep a connection can be? American psychotherapist J. Welwood integrates psychological concepts from the West with Eastern spiritual philosophy. His answer for a deep connection is a soul connection.  




     A soul connection is a resonance between two people who respond to the essential beauty of each other’s individual natures, behind their facades, and who connect on this deeper level. This kind of mutual recognition provides the catalyst for a potent alchemy. It is a sacred alliance whose purpose is to help both partners discover and realize their deepest potentials. 
     While a heart connection lets us appreciate those we love just as they are, a soul connection opens up a further dimension… seeing and loving them for who they could be, and for who we could become under their influence.
     This means recognizing that we both have an important part to play in helping each other become more fully who we are. A soul connection not only inspires us to expand, but also forces us to confront whatever stands in the way of that expansion.
- J. Welwood

Saturday, March 23, 2013

The Bee





7 am. Silence in the house. Little birds are singing outside the window. The sounds bring you back into the careless days of childhood, when the sun shone brightly in the skies, when the lazy summer days were filled with joy, when her dad had a bee adventure.

He hadn’t always been an alcoholic. He liked to drink. Oh yes...if you are a Russian you are bound to, that’s what they say. But that summer he had a hobby and it kept him way too busy to drink. 

The bee hives. Three of them. 
     “What are those Daddy?”
     “Those are the houses where bees live.They have a bee Queen they protect, and they make lots of honey.”
Honey...
     “How do they make it?”
     “They fly around from flower to flower and gather pollen. See that bee,” he pointed to a fluffy black and yellow dot sitting on top of the camomile flower. “She is gathering honey. Once she is done she would fly back into her house, store it in there and come back for more.” The bee took off and indeed flew back into the hive. “This way we would have honey in the winter, and Mommy will make you tea with milk and honey.”

She played around in the sun, and saw a little ant slowly crossing the concrete block in front of the house. She was so carried away looking at the little creature that she didn’t notice the sound. 
     “Oh, what is that sound? It’s approaching.”
     “Bzzzz.”
The bee! She didn’t have time to do anything as in a matter of seconds, the bee landed on her right thigh and stung her.

A face changed its expression and turned into an unhappy grimace. A few seconds later a sound broke the silence.
     “Aaaaaa!”
     “What happened?!” Mom rushed at her side
     “The bee-eee!”

Dad came running from behind the fence.
Everybody quit their tasks.
The world froze in place.
The child had been stung by the bee.

     “Did you wave your hands in the air?” asked grandma.”They don’t like it.”
     “No,” she wailed through the sobs while tears kept falling off her cheeks.”It just flew in here, and bit me. Why did it bite me? I didn’t do anything.”
     “Where does it hurt?”  Mom whispered in pain, looking at the child crying.
     “Right here,” she pointed at the thigh.
     “It’s all you, with your bees!” Mom angrily barked at Dad. “Now the child has to suffer.”
     “She is wearing red tights, the bee thought it was a flower!” Dad remarked as-a-matter-of-factly in an attempt to calm her down.

     “Yes, it must be red tights. The bee thought I was a flower. I like to be a flower.Flowers are pretty,” the girl reflected.

     “Does it hurt?” 
     “Yes, a little bit.”
     “Can you walk?”
     “Yes.”
     “Let’s go to the house. You’ll take off your tights and we’ll clean up the wound.”

     “Here is the bee, it won’t bite you anymore.” Dad held the dead bee on the palm of his hand.
     “Did you kill it?”
     “No, it died on its own. When it stings somebody the sting falls off and the bee dies. It won’t sting you anymore.” Dad said reassuringly.

“Poor bee,” the girl thought.”What a silly life! It bites you and then it dies.It does not make any sense!”

The tears dried out.They would go to the house now, and Mom will make some tea with milk and honey.


Has the life ever bitten you down? Have you been stung? How did it feel? Did you cry? Did the help come? Did it hurt? Did you lie down and die? Or did you get up, lick you wound and kept going? 
Keep going, it is worth it. If you pay too much attention to the wound, it will never heal.
Remember the child you once were. Careless and free. You’d cry one minute, and laugh it out the next one. Wake up the child inside! 

2011

Monday, March 4, 2013

Steve Jobs Quotes





I think of most things in life as either a Bob Dylan or a Beatles song.

When you are a carpenter making a beautiful chest of drawers, you are not going to use a piece of plywood on the back, even though it faces the wall and nobody will ever see it. You'll know it's there, so you are going to use a beautiful piece of wood on the back. For you to sleep well at night, the aesthetic, has to be carried all the way through. 

You have to trust in something- your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.

It's been one of my mantras- focus and simplicity. Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it's worth in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains.

Stay hungry. Stay foolish.

Saturday, November 3, 2012

A Thank You Note


Do you know that every time I close my eyes
I think of you
You make me smile,
You seem so true...

Do you know that every time I talk to you
You’re giving me a wake-up call
Right through my soul...

Do you know that every night I sleep so tight
And dream of you beneath blue skies
Throughout the times...

Chorus:
And you know I want to thank you
Thank you... for this world...

About which I didn’t know until you
About which I didn’t know till  my heart flew
It’s reflected in your eyes , this endless world...
You have lifted me to stars of Universe
And to you I feel so open and so close.


Do you see the leaves are changing
Fall is here, life’s rearranging
Rapidly...
Oh, can you see...
Do you see how much I miss you
Hold my hand, I want to kiss you
Quietly...

People,traffic,streets so busy
They don’t matter ‘cos you’re with me
In my soul
Through rise and fall...

And at times my thoughts are racing,
Hands are shaking, heart is pacing
I feel free
You set me free...

Chorus:
And you know I want to thank you
Thank you... for this world...

About which I didn’t know until you
About which I didn’t know till  my heart flew
It’s reflected in your eyes , this endless world...
You have lifted me to stars of Universe
And to you I feel so open and so close.

2010





Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Einstein's Quotes


Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. 

All religions, arts and sciences are branches of the same tree.

Everything that can be counted does not necessarily count; everything that counts cannot necessarily be counted.

I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious.

Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.

We shall require a substantially new manner of thinking if mankind is to survive. 

-Albert Einstein

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Johnny Depp Quotes

Creative Art by Jeannette Woitzik

I like the challenge of trying different things and wondering whether it's going to work or whether I'm going to fall flat on my face.

There are four questions of value in life... What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love.

People say I make strange choices, but they're not strange for me. My sickness is that I'm fascinated by human behavior, by what's underneath the surface, by the worlds inside people.

I'm not sure I'm adult yet. 

Am I a romantic? I've seen 'Wuthering Heights' ten times. I'm a romantic. 







Sunday, August 12, 2012

Remembering 9.11


Embracing ever so gently the curve of yellow playmate,
You’re breaking strings to shatters and pierce stiffened sky
Here moves the dome of heaven so vast and ever so endless
It’s wonderful that all of us have gathered here today.

Reflections of the sunset are gleaming through the branches
Don’t be so sad my playmate, look up and shed a smile
Someone will tap your shoulder and whisper ever so gently
How wonderful that all of us have gathered here today.

And yet, with pain and heartache we will recall the others,
Whose names engraved in ashes are burning until dawn
We’ll sing this song to heavens, we won’t forget you ever
How wonderful that all of us have gathered here today.

2012

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Being me...



I'm not a body with a soul, I'm a soul with a visible part called the body.
I can choose either to be a victim of the world or an adventurer in search of treasure. It's all a question of how I view my life. 
When I had nothing to lose, I had everything. When I stopped being who I am, I found myself.
Sometimes life is very mean: a person can spend days, weeks, months and years without feeling new. Then, when a door opens - a positive avalanche pours in. One moment, you have nothing, the next, you have more than you can cope with.

 ― Paulo Coelho